Understanding prenuptial agreements and how they could help you
Roger Gurney, a Partner in the Family Team, has seen a significant increase in enquiries about prenuptial agreements, a legal step that, until recently, was rarely discussed openly in most UK households.
With more local couples choosing to plan for the future, Roger is at the forefront of this shift, helping clients across Lincolnshire, Rutland, Peterborough, and Cambridgeshire understand how prenups can provide peace of mind before marriage.
A Practical Approach to Modern Relationships
“People are increasingly viewing prenups as part of responsible life planning, rather than something reserved for the super-rich,” says Roger. “It’s not about expecting the worst, it’s about being open with one another and protecting what matters most.”
From protecting children from previous relationships to safeguarding a family business or property, couples are recognising the value of setting expectations before tying the knot.
So, What Exactly is a Prenup?
A prenuptial agreement (or ‘prenup’) is a legal document made before marriage that outlines how a couple’s finances, property and assets should be divided if the relationship ends. While not legally binding in the UK, the courts will increasingly uphold them, particularly if they are fair and meet future needs, are transparent, and both partners received independent legal advice.
Roger says common reasons for prenups include:
- One partner owning a home or business before marriage
- Wanting to protect children’s inheritance from a previous relationship
- Unequal personal wealth or savings
- Protecting gifts or financial support from family
“It’s especially popular now with people marrying later in life,” he notes. “By then, many have assets, careers, or children they want to safeguard.”
A Growing Trend
Prenups are becoming part of the broader trend toward financial transparency and emotional maturity in relationships.
“It’s about having a safety net, not building walls,” Roger explains. “And more couples locally are recognising that planning ahead doesn’t mean planning for failure, it means investing in a stable, honest future.”
Local Expertise from a Trusted Family Lawyer
Roger brings many years of family law experience to his work, combining expert legal advice with a down-to-earth, client focused, and practical approach. Known for his calm guidance and clear communication, he’s helped many of his clients make informed decisions during emotionally significant life transitions.
“Clients often tell me they feel more secure after going through the process,” he adds. “Prenups give couples a framework to talk honestly about money, which many people find difficult otherwise.”
How we can help you
If you’re considering marriage and would like advice on whether a prenuptial agreement is right for you, Roger and the Family Law Team can guide you through the process, ensuring you are supported and well informed throughout.
For further information, please contact Roger Gurney, Partner in the Family team on 01733 882800 or email [email protected].
Roger Gurney, Partner
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